I missed my sister's graduation today.  Had I known about it I would have been there.  No one called me to tell me it was today.  My mother called me after I had missed it to tell me what I shit I am for missing it.  I yelled at her.  "Why didn't you tell me?"  She said I should have known.  She said I knew my sister was a senior and that it's June so I should've known it was coming up and I should have called her for the information.  I guess I just assumed that for something as important as this I would've been called by those who had the information but I guess from now on if there is an event going on it's my responcibility to use psychic powers to predict that there might be one and call for the info.  I called my sister to congratulate her and to apologize for my absence.  She was very understanding and said she would've called me herself but thought that our mother had told me.  I did speak to my mother twice this week... both times I called her.  She could've taken either of those opportunities to say "hey your sister graduates this weekend you going to be there?" but she didn't.  My heart is broken.  It seems my mother felt she had some point to prove and used an important day that I will never get back to do it.  I'm sorry mother but I must have missed the point you were trying to make because I still feel that if you are the one privy to information that you are the one who should call the people it pertains to and let them know.  I wouldn't expect my mother to guess when something was coming up in my life.... I'd tell her.  People have a lot on their minds and don't always think about things.  Yes I knew my sister was a senior and yes I knew she would be graduating... but I assumed I would get a call with the details and never once thought I would miss it.  I love my mother she does a lot for me I don't want people to think she is awful but sometimes she just does things like this.  I don't know why.  She likes to complain about me to her friends and tell them what a demon seed I am.... lately her gripe has been that I didn't have a job... now that I have one she had nothing to complain about.... I guess she does now.